On this Valentine's Day, read this amazingly sad love-story of Mr. and Mrs. Jinnah.


Too Lively a Wife She Was For Jinnah!

http://www.jinnah.pk/2012/02/14/too-lively-a-wife-she-was-for-jinnah/


"In his baggage, was a love letter by Ruttie: “Try and remember me, beloved, as the flower you plucked and not the flower you tread upon.” It’s in a photo-frame at Jinnah’s Mausoleum."

Yesterday, me n zee went to watch this movie Ek Main aur Ek Tu, a light-heart comedy cheered both of us especially after Saturday volcanic eruption at home.

The ugly words still hang in the air, echoes of which disturb my mind. But, I go on pretending not to care. As I am leaving for Karachi in a week, so I have something to look forward to. Couple of weeks away from this madness would be a bliss.

I see that I am blogging after quite a long time, because its difficult to gather my head and heart at one place. They both keep wandering in different directions.

Things to do:

1. Finish remaining shopping
2. Pack gifts
3. Start packing mine and zee's stuff. 

Anyway, it's Valentine's Day today.... let's sing songs of Cupid and Psyche.

Pain is gone and bruises will disappear too within few days. But the soul has deep wounds with permanent scars. A part of me has stopped loving him.

The most painful feeling is the sense of solitude. I don't know whether I am suffering from PMS or its due to the side effects of prolactin-controlling medicine I am taking since two weeks. This mental agony is just too unbearable. When your family or friends are not around to console you and the only person whom you are fully dependent both emotionally and financially seem to have other priorities, then you just want to kill yourself. What he fails to understand that unlike other people I don't have mother, father, brother or sister to cheer me. Fortunately or unfortunately, I only have you so I want you to be more considerate. But its the irony of fate that the only person who makes you happy has the power to make you the saddest person on earth.

See the stone set in your eyes

See the thorn twist in your side.

I wait for you.

Sleight of hand and twist of fate

On a bed of nails she makes me wait

And I wait without you

With or without you

With or without you.

Through the storm, we reach the shore

You gave it all but I want more

And I'm waiting for you

With or without you

With or without you.

I can't live with or without you.

And you give yourself away

And you give yourself away

And you give, and you give

And you give yourself away.

My hands are tied, my body bruised

She´s got me with nothing to win

And nothing left to lose.

And you give yourself away

And you give yourself away

And you give, and you give

And you give yourself away.

With or without you

With or without you

I can't live

With or without you.

(U2)

Kitchen Insanity!

These days I am trying my luck in kitchen as I am told that a woman is not considered worthy unless she has mastered the art of cooking. Education and intellect are useless if she can't cook dozens of mouth-watering dishes which her parivaar can savour. One must be thinking with millions of recipes and videos online, plus dozens of cooking channels, it shouldn't be a tough task. But it is, actually! Mother in-laws, control freaks and egoistic like mine, don't like competent daughter in-laws. Kitchen is their kingdom... a forbidden kingdom! And they guard it like anything.

Like a warrior, you have to besiege the fortress. Entering and using her things (yes, everything belongs to her though you pay heavily for everything thru verbal and financial abuse) without invoking her wrath is the first milestone. Once she has stopped making fuss about that you can proceed.

Here comes the battlefield now. She will not tell or guide you but whatever you cook will be critically assessed. If it is not good which of course, happens in the beginning, be prepared for the humiliation you and your family will be facing. And if it turns out to be good and tasty, there will be more faults. And if you dare try something new, time for the backlash! Oh, tomatoes are not used in this dish, or I am sure you didn't use ginger garlic paste in that. Oh, you waste things too much. Oh, why did you hold knife like that? Dayem!

And the most typical statement you hear: hamare yehan to aisa nahi pakta (we don't eat that)... liar!!! She does try all new dishes and will even try your recipes too.

So, I am struggling and juggling my way around the kitchen while reciting verse 13 from Surah Saaf: نَصْرٌ مِّن اللَّهِ وَفَتْحٌ قَرِيبٌ Help from Allah and a near victory.

Now, I am done wid editing blogger template. I miss old me. Yesterday, was hubby's birthday. So, it was a family, we all went out for dinner and that was it. And four days before, on 24 june, it was our second wedding anniversary but as since zee was burdened wid office work even on friday as well, so the day passed quietly. Yes, zee took me to office for a morning drive. His office is about two hours drive from home. So, we headed early at 5:30 a.m. The office is located at a deserted place. Endless sand dunes on both sides and among living species there were camels and few cameleers and yes, I saw white camels too and the cross-bred brown and white. I took pics from my cellphone so they aren't much clear but you can see faint images of white camels.

Camels do cross road and you have to pull over immediately to let them pass. One has to be really careful while driving here.

Click this image and you'll see camels grazing on few grass they found.

Hubby, serious and nervous as the camel crosses the road.

Enlarge the image and you'll see white camels.

Shining sun and glittering sand. A work of Nature's wand!

Yes, after this long hiatus I am back to blogger and I intend to be regular. Its that life after marriage had been quite turbulent. It took quite a while to gather myself. I will mention past events in my coming posts as I get out of this writer's block.

Anyway, for starting, today I went to watch this movie Super 8 at the cinema. My activities here are limited. I can roam in malls, window shopping or occasionally, buy a thing or two or I can go to seaside. Cinema-going is one of my favourite activities. Sometimes, we go to family cafes where my hubby-chubby smokes sheesha while I chatter. :).

Well, am done wid today's rant. I have to work on my template. My love for my first template is quite deep-rooted and that's why I haven't been able to settle down wid newer ones. Let's hope I start getting comfortable wid this one.

The times when uncertainty impedes your growth spiritually. This is what happening with me right now. I have taken a decision and I have to stand by it which is the toughest part. Waiting for Fate to announce its judgement where I rest my case. Anyway, I was playing this Traveler IQ Challenge game on Facebook and managed to score an IQ of 93. Wow! This explains that my brain is still in working condition. Besides, I am reading this post our deadline-driven culture... seems interesting. Do go thru it.